Tips for Avoiding Small Talk and Creating Real Conversations

You can start by looking recently interesting topics to talk, it can from real life, internet, TV, newspapers or anywhere.

Importantly be smart to take many interesting points from your conversation and don't be too dominant in your conversations, but give people a chance and freedom to tell their opinions and ideas about topic from your conversations then you giving your reaction about his/her opinion properly, after it repeat this cycle mechanism continuously.

As long as people still enjoying talking many topics with you, the conversations would be life and longer.

But if people not mood or don't have any interest with your conversations, then don't force them to continue the conversations, you need be patient and smart to take a good moment for conversations.

*Konata and Miyuki from Lucky Star