Cleaning House a Bit Everyday Or All in One Day, Which Better ?

Based from my experience cleaning my house, here my conclusion.

It's depends with how big your house. If big enough, first option is more better, because....

1. It's more saving your stamina.

2. You can more details to cleaning up and organizing many stuff in there.

3. If your house big enough, you can make a plan to cleaning it area per area everyday.

4. You still have a time to spot and repairing broken parts around your house.

5. You also still have a chance to decorating your house as well.

If your house is small and you still can do it all alone, second option may still OK.

*Honda Tohru from Fruits Basket

Why did I become a hikikomori? I didn't choose this

Not just you only, Hikikomori is a global phenomenon not just happened in Japan.

It's happened because consequences of modern life in modern society, when people gets more lazy do socialization (not just you but society around you also), selfish mind, materialistic and apathy society. 

I also Hikkikomori as well after my mom gone, i didn't choose this way as well but since situation forced me like this, no relatives, neighbors nor real friends caring and talking with me now, i'm completely lived alone in my house now, so i'm Hikikomori too. But at least I have online friends to talk. 

So don't too much complaining about your fate as Hikikomori. Just accept it and adapting with your situation now, be enjoy ! 

If you can't have real friends then seek online friends now. If you can't found real job then seek online job or online work. Just do what you can do now.

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Meaning of Life and My Philosophy of Life

People not born with exact purposes for their life, like for what purposes they life in this world. People will understand their meaning of life, when they have something they loved and something worth to struggle for. 

Yeah i mean our Love and Hardworks in our life, actually giving us truly meaning of life, example like smile from our beloved one, devotion to our job, devotion to our religion, devotion to our nations, etc. These are giving us spirits and truly meaning of life. 

Selfless people will understand about meaning of life more better than selfish people.

If you don't know where to start your life, then start from what can you do now with all your might, another ways will following soon.

If you failed in your efforts then keep trying but sometimes change to another way for success is more better for your future, so always be flexible with your decisions in life.

Life only just once, so enjoy your life with full responsibilities.

Happiness and sadness are very common in life and happened to everybody. 

Complains and empty talks cannot solve any problems, only active person with smart brain, hands and legs can solve problems. So be less complains and do more.

Money can solve some problems but cannot buy wisdoms, because wisdom is self-experiences and self-awareness.

Relationship based on money is similiar like hiring a double-agent, when someone can pay more, he/she can change side anytimes. But relationship based true love will long lasting forever like mother and her children.

*Aoi Yamada from Working!!

My Spouse Earns Less Money Than I Do, Can I Complain ?

It's more better he/she earn less money from their hardwork than nothing.

If you really loved your spouse, then you should can giving him/her supports for their success in business. A good spouse should can "fighting side by side" with their beloved spouse to facing any problems in life ! No more giving them more pressures and stress for his/her problems he/she faced alone !

Only just complains and empty talks all of days can't solve anything and make all situations more worse ! Only real efforts, supports and help can solve all problems in this worlds. Talk Less Do More !

Money is needed to lived in this world, but money can't buy a good relationship and true happiness. That's why many divorced richman and celebrities, once he/she have broken relationship with their spouse, didn't have any ideas how to make their relationship back to good again, despite they are rich and have money.

Keep always loving your spouse despite with all their lackness, always can support him/her with all your might and be selfless for any problems you will facing together in life.

My Favorites Single Kanji

I like many Kanji with their own unique characteristics, but for a single Kanji, i like kanji Arashi 嵐 for storm, with “mountain” as a “crown” and “wind” as it’s “body”. I loved kanji Arashi 嵐 so much!

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How to Dress in Japan and Not Look Like a Tourist

1. Just dress normally like most of Japanese people did and not weared too colorful clothes.

2. Don't hanging or show off your DSLR Camera on your neck.

3. Don't weared typical tourist hat like cowboy hat 🤠 or sunglasses 😎

4. Don't show off your souvenir stuff and accessories.

5. Don't make noisy sound.

6. Most importantly don't act like a tourist !

*Scene from Tada-kun wa koi wo shinai

Tips for Avoiding Small Talk and Creating Real Conversations

You can start by looking recently interesting topics to talk, it can from real life, internet, TV, newspapers or anywhere.

Importantly be smart to take many interesting points from your conversation and don't be too dominant in your conversations, but give people a chance and freedom to tell their opinions and ideas about topic from your conversations then you giving your reaction about his/her opinion properly, after it repeat this cycle mechanism continuously.

As long as people still enjoying talking many topics with you, the conversations would be life and longer.

But if people not mood or don't have any interest with your conversations, then don't force them to continue the conversations, you need be patient and smart to take a good moment for conversations.

*Konata and Miyuki from Lucky Star

How Can Some People Watching Many Anime Episodes in Just One Day ?

It's depends how long the Anime durations is. Some Anime fans may will treated all 13 episodes of an Anime are like watching a single movie 🎥

Well watching Anime is Not similar with do works. As long as He/She have much times for himself, watching all Anime episodes is Not different like take a single breathing.

*Tsubame Koyasu from Kaguya-sama Kokurasetai

How do You Know When Someone Really Loves You ?

1. Generally he/she giving so much or unusual caring to you.

2. Trying the best to help you to solving your problems without asking any returns.

3. He/she can “fighting” side by side together with you to face any odds.

4. He/she always remember about you, so He/she trying the best to make you happy.

5. He/she can be too overprotective and very loyal to you.

6. In this modern time, such person most likely your parents or your very close person.

*Hiromi Yuasa and Shinichirou Nakagami from Anime True Tears

How to Cure Loneliness and Sadness ?

1. Try Not to thinking about it and ignored such loneliness feeling.

2. You can looking your most trusted friends or relatives to chatting your sadness now.

3. Take a walk or riding bicycle to shopping center or playing ground.

4. Install and playing some interesting Smartphone games from Google Play.

5. Eating or drinking your favorite foods.

6. Do hobbies or listening music.

7. Watching Anime or movies.

8. Make someone laughing and happy with your tales and stories, so you can happy together as well.

9. Take a bath or sleeping a while.

10. Looking some inspirations and ideas.

11. Praying if you believe in God.

12. Helping someone in difficult situations.

13. Cleaning or repairing your room or house then decorating it differently as you like.

14. Writing a diary.

15. Have a pet.

16. Do what can you do now or try something new.

17. Or just take a simple breath in the morning and drinking fresh water.

*Cheerful Eiko Tsukimi (月見英子) from Paripi Koumei

How to Be Always Creative ?

 I think solution for this question is try to “Thinking outside the box” for creativity sake. Sometimes a problem NOT stricly just have one solution to to solve a problem, it can be may can solve by another ways (multi-solutions) and probably more better.

Creativity needs inspirations and fresh ideas from many ways, examples like reexamination and studying again the projects, what can you can add and what you can reducing it, what need to be change, what needed improvisations, etc.

Shortly to say, for creativity sake, let your mind free first, thinking outside the box with your own way and looking inspirations and ideas from many ways.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thinking_outside_the_box

*Minko Tsurugi from Hanasaku Iroha